I feel just a tad bit smothered from all the male drama. 

First it’s my friend X. I understand he’s bored at home, and is frustrated because he’s not working and school hasn’t started yet for him. But at the same time this is the friend from the previous entry so we both know he has a girlfriend. And he’s becoming even more aggressive with his flirting, and at this point it’s getting extremely annoying. I don’t mind having a friend that converses a lot. But to have a friend that’s asking you constantly whether or not you’re home so you can talk via Skype is obnoxious, especially when all he’s really asking for is to get a chance to see me naked.  

Secondly there’s friend Y. We used to “date.” It was a long distance relationship that didn’t have the foundation to make it. He’s extremely clingy and constantly asks where I’m at, what I’m doing, when I’m going to be home, etc. Even if we were dating that would not be acceptable. It’s clingy as hell and he can’t take subtle hints to where I say I’m too damn busy to talk to him all the time. He’s another one that sits at home all day and does nothing, so naturally he’s going to cling to me. It’s just getting super exhausting even talking to him. Sometimes I consider not even logging into AIM at all because of it, or scheduling block time so he won’t message me. It’s giving me the biggest headache.

Thirdly there’s this asshole I met at the club last night. I made a drunken mistake in giving him my #. I knew it was a mistake when I was at the club though the way he just kind of followed me everywhere, tried to dance with other girls to make me jealous, and would blatantly stare at me if I danced with another guy. I can tell that he’s also too young for me. He messaged my phone the SECOND I got back to my apartment begging me to come over to his place last night, which wasn’t happening. Honestly, I gave a couple of guys my #. But I made the mistake in thinking the one who messaged me (I didn’t have my phone so I didn’t take down #’s) was the one I actually thought wasn’t a stalker. Not only did I realize he was too young, he’s also blatantly ignorant of what a man should be. A man should not be begging someone to go home with them. A man should not be blowing up my phone and then, by my grace allowing him to have lunch with me, ruin that by trying to make me wait for them. I don’t wait for boys, boys wait for me. 

Fourthly there’s this guy that used to date one of my friends. In many ways we’ve all come to realize that he’s failed at being a man. He likes to blame other people when they’ve been cheated on, bitch at people for their flaws, and just inherently be a douche bag. He’s the exact stereotype of an ignorant boy trying to act like a man. While they were dating we had suspicions of him having a minor crush on me, which wasn’t acceptable but something that would be pointless, considering I would shut him down without even having to think about it. I’m not a man stealer, especially not from my friends. Today he decided to make a crude comment on my Facebook status (where I said I had fun playing CODMW2 naked) that really made me think he was trying to indirectly flirt with me. When confronted about it by my friend, he decided to get angry and say that “no one would wanna see my skinny ass naked anyway.” First of all you don’t call me “skinny.” That’s insulting to me. Second of all there’s no real need to sit there and insult me just because you’re being overly defensive. What he said was inappropriate, period. I considered deleting him from Facebook before for being well, an idiot. But this was the catalyst. 

I have no idea what the fuck is wrong with half the people I know nowadays. It seems like everyone I meet that has a penis ends up being a dumb ass bitch. I don’t wanna be that girl that is known for hating men, but I can say I understand those girls now. It seems as though being born with testicles is equivalent to having a learning disability. 

/end rant.